Transgender journey: facing the reality of surgery

Here’s wishing writer Juliet Jacques good luck and an easy time with her surgery.

From The Guardian UK:

After a consultation with her gender reassignment surgeon, the reality of impending surgery dawns on Juliet Jacques. Is she doing the right thing?, Tuesday 15 May 2012

I’m finally moving towards the second major stage of the gender reassignment pathway – surgery.

I asked myself: “Is this still what you want to do?” I’d never regretted coming out as transsexual or starting hormone therapy, but both were reversible (at least to a point). This, less so. Some people live full-time in their desired gender without pursuing surgery, but I felt as certain as ever that it was the right course for me.

The clinicians at the Gender Identity Clinic agreed, so I awaited a consultation date. In the meantime, I focused on other things – where to live, where to work and what to write about.

On the appointed day I arrived at the clinic to meet surgeon James Bellringer and Manjit, the clinical nurse specialist.

Dr Bellringer’s first query threw me: “Who do you live with?” I’ve been privileged enough to live alone for almost my entire transition, finding it helpful to have my own space as I came to terms with my changing body, so I’ve not covered housing in this blog. Associations cannot refuse accommodation ‘to a transsexual person’, but it can still be precarious for trans people if anyone around them takes exception.

Housing became an issue when I decided to move from Brighton to London. Knowing one-person flats anywhere near central London were beyond my means, I’d asked around and looked online for shares, fretting about the possibility of moving in with strangers. Several trans friends had struggled with abusive flatmates, and securing a place that I knew would be comfortable proved surprisingly difficult.

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