There is another big fantasy that transkids growing up alone and often physically, emotionally or sexually abused have.
Particularly when all the name calling and abuse leaves them so hurt and lonely that they feel they will never find someone to love them.
That is the fantasy of having someone to love.
One of the crueler numbers run on LGBT/TQ people is that we do not deserve the same right to love. That some how our relationships are less worthy of honoring than those of straight people.
One of the cruelest of bullshit games run on post-SRS women and men is the gotcha game that results in their not being able to enter into a heterosexual marriage. If straight people do not have every record of their lives, every chromosome in their bodies subjected to scrutiny with the stipulation that if one “T” is found to not be crossed, one “I” not dotted than everything is void then neither should TS/TG people.
Our relationships and ability to have someone to love, our ability to enjoy a life secure in the awareness that our relationships will not be considered null and void because we have been surgically reassigned to a different sex than we were assigned at birth.