Psychology Constructs the Female

If you haven’t figured it out already, or if you are new to visiting this list I should probably say this before plunging into the following.  I’m a Second Wave radical feminist of the pre-cultural feminist type.  What I am talking about in the following has little or nothing to do with the post-modern deconstructiionalist arguments so popular today and has everything to do with thinking from when feminism was about liberation and not a Ph.D. program in Women’s Studies or the more current “Gender Studies”

I’ve been accused of being an essentialist for my reducing, stripping bare of social role considerations the terms man and woman/boy and girl.  For me a man is an adult male human being and a woman is an adult female human being.  Boy and girl are the child male and female human being.

I came out in 1969.  Because of the time frame and because I was politically radical this meant that transition was as much about consciousness raising and learning feminism as it was about learning femininity in order to assimilate into the expected adult female social roles which we called sex roles as gender had not risen to the hegemonic position it occupies today.

This meant reading all the feminist works of the era.  Including some that had more than a small degree of criticism of transsexuality.

I was very taken with Simone de Beauvoir and her book “The Second Sex” where she lays out the systematic construction of misogyny and the structures that support it.

How women are turned into other and stripped of a common shared humaness in the process.  Lucy Parsons observed, “We are the slaves of slaves. We are exploited more ruthlessly than men.” which is another way of saying “Woman is the nigger of the world.”

Setting of women as apart from men with men being seen as normal and women as abnormal lalows women to be reduced to property never even possessing their own last name and robbed of the connection with the mother.

Religion, especially the desert three but basically all religions set man as good and godlike even proclaiming the heavenly father, god the father etc.  They set woman as evil.  If men rape it is because like Eve women tempt him to do so.

If men murder their wives, or betray them with another woman, abuse them, debase them or desert them it is the woman’s fault.  she drove him to it.  Even when he is a right wing closet fag hitting on a cop in an airport restroom.

I took the title for this piece from a very popular feminist work from 1968 by Naomi Weisstein that apeared in numerous feminist anthologies and which I have tracked down on line.

It is an implicit assumption that the area of psychology which concerns itself with personality has the onerous but necessary task of describing the limits of human possibility. Thus when we are about to consider the liberation of women, we naturally look to psychology to tell us what “true” liberation would mean: what would give women the freedom to fulfill their own intrinsic natures. Psychologists have set about describing the true natures of women with a certainty and a sense of their own infallibility rarely found in the secular world. Bruno Bettelheim, of the University of Chicago, tells us (1965) that “we must start with the realization that, as much as women want to be good scientists or engineers, they want first and foremost to be womanly companions of men and to be mothers.’ Erik Erikson of Harvard University (1964), upon noting that young women often ask whether they can “have an identity before they know whom they will marry, and for whom they will make a home”, explains somewhat elegiacaly that “much of a young woman’s identity is already defined in her kind of attractiveness and in the selectivity of her search for the man (or men) by whom she wishes to be sought…” Mature womanly fulfillment, for Erikson, rests on the fact that a woman’s “somatic design harbors an ‘inner space’ destined to bear the offspring of chosen men, and with it, a biological, psychological and ethical commitment to take care of human infancy.” Some psychiatrists even see the acceptance of woman’s role by women as a solution to societal problems. “Woman is nurturance…,” writes Joseph Rheingold (1964), a psychiatrist at Harvard Medical School, “anatomy decrees the life of a woman… when women grow up without dread of their biological functions and without subversion by feminist doctrine, and therefore enter upon motherhood with a sense of fulfillment and altruistic sentiment, we shall attain the goal of a good life and a secure world in which to live it.” (p. 714)

The entire article is well worth the read and will give insight into how those same psychiatrists pathologize WBTs.  For that is what they do.  If men are the standard by which others are judged and women who want the same rights and privileges that are shared by all men as a result of male privilege are deemed to be maladjusted then imagine how these same insecure men judge people with transsexualism who are female identified and willing to give up some if not all of that assumed male privilege.

This is not something male identified men are willing to do since it means surrendering humanity which by the very construct of the term “mankind” is assumed to be male.  In terms of their point of view (but not necessarily ours) this means going from being human to being other.

Valerie Solanis may have been driven totally crazy by life in an absolutely misogynistic society but her work Scum Manifesto stands as a classic full with pithy if often uncomfortable truths.

The affect of fatherhood on males, specifically, is to make them `Men’, that is, highly defensive of all impulses to passivity, faggotry, and of desires to be female. Every boy wants to imitate his mother, be her, fuse with her, but Daddy forbids this; he is the mother; he gets to fuse with her. So he tells the boy, sometimes directly, sometimes indirectly, to not be a sissy, to act like a `Man’. The boy, scared shitless of and `respecting’ his father, complies, and becomes just like Daddy, that model of `Man’-hood, the all-American ideal — the well-behaved heterosexual dullard.

The effect of fatherhood on females is to make them male — dependent, passive, domestic, animalistic, insecure, approval and security seekers, cowardly, humble, `respectful’ of authorities and men, closed, not fully responsive, half-dead, trivial, dull, conventional, flattened-out and thoroughly contemptible. Daddy’s Girl, always tense and fearful, uncool, unanalytical, lacking objectivity, appraises Daddy, and thereafter, other men, against a background of fear (`respect’) and is not only unable to see the empty shell behind the facade, but accepts the male definition of himself as superior, as a female, and of herself, as inferior, as a male, which, thanks to Daddy, she really is.

Solanas makes an observation that more clearly sums up the fiction written by Bailey and Blanchard than almost any argument I’ve seen.  “To be sure he’s a `Man’, the male must see to it that the female be clearly a `Woman’, the opposite of a `Man’, that is, the female must act like a faggot.”

Let us assume, and I point out this is not a longshot assumption that Bailey is a fag.  Not an out and proud gay man but a weaselly insecure little closet case fag.  Actually I think his book The Man who would be Queen is somewhat autobiographical and he is projecting his own desires and forbidden fantasies on to others but is his idea of androphilic transsexuals not a matter of thinking women are really faggots?

That is to say dick crazy, mindless fembots more concerned with the trivial matters of queenish femininity than actually being 21st century actual women.  And from there are his AGP transsexuals not in s0me ways maligned for having meaningful careers in something other than the ghettos of sex work and the pink collar world?

When one strips away the anecdotal based unsubstantiated lies and phony studies that make up Bailey and Blanchards work at the core of their work are the same assumptions attacked by de Beauvoir and Weisstein and the name for those assumptions is misogyny.

Misogyny the pathology that should be considered the father of all pathologies and the one never treated as such.

I do not use the term “classic transsexual”.  Nor do I use HBS. I, in fact abhor the term (classic transsexual) as it makes me think of the writings of Benjamin and other early theorizers who wrote so glowingly of what “perfect women” we made and how we married and adopted children etc.  In short they saw in us the perfect creation of their male imagined woman.

Julia Serano uses the term “sexualize” I perfer the term exociticized with the same connotations one find projected upon at various times Asian women, Latina, European women.  The idea that we really know how to please a man and are willing, pliant sub-human fembots unlike those nasty feminist educated women.

Here in lies some of the reality behind part of what Janice Raymond was saying for the doctors did put forth that we were the ideal women as far as so many men were concerned.

Most of these doctors were living in a world of their projected male fantasies.

Those of us who got our SRS in the early days often found our seeking of legitimacy subverted by the denial of paper work vital to our assimilation or treatment by the law that ghettoized our lives.

Often times it was easier to live in less hostile spaces only to be condemned by those lucky few who managed to slip into the feminine mystique.

Some of our critics have pointed to the high rate of lesbianism as a sign of pathology.  They claim “classic transsexual” or most young emergers like men.

I work retail.  I see the pushing on girls barely out of infancy the mandatory heteronormativity.  The breaking of their common humanity into femininity.  In part feminists are right and WBTs do miss out on that socialization from the cradle and as a result we are less indoctrinated towards compulsory heterosexuality.  As Tina puts it, “How are we supposed to love men when males have been the authors of so much abuse that we endured growing up.”

One of the Beats, either Corso or Ferlinghetti was asked why there were so few women in the Beat Movement and he pointed out that women’s parent could have them committed to insane asylums even as adults for their non-conformist behavior and there they could be subjected to electro shock treatment and even lobotomy.

These misogynistic psychiatrists consider us mentally ill for breaking their insane misogynistic rules.

It becomes a catch 22 for us as they have declared our sanity suspect and we are forced to prove it to not be suspect when they get to make the rules that determine our sanity.

And they are a bunch of misogynistic lunatics.

Anti-bullying bill in jeopardy


Passed in committee, Right-wing attempts picking off supporters before floor vote

by Matt Comer | June 17th, 2009

A bill that would protect North Carolina students from harassment and bullying on the basis of sexual orientation and gender-identity passed a key House committee on Tuesday, June 16, as right-wing and anti-gay Christian fundamentalist organizations attempted to stop the bill.

Sponsored by Sen. Julia Boseman (D-New Hanover) the bill had already cleared the Senate before passing 9-5 in the House Judiciary Committee. The bill could come up for a vote as early as Thursday or as late as next week.

Equality North Carolina executive director Ian Palmquist told Q-Notes late Wednesday afternoon that they are doing everything they can to get the bill passed.

“The vote count is extremely tight and the right-wing is working really heavily to peel off any vote they can,” he said. “Any moderate Republican or Democrat is a target.”

In last year’s session, the House passed an inclusive version of the School Violence Prevention Act once before it headed to the Senate and twice when it again approved the same version after a conference committee ironed out disagreements with a differing Senate version. The fight this year is proving to be more difficult.

“The House did pass it last time, but the right-wing and Republican leadership have effectively made this bill just about that specific language [of the enumerated categories of ‘sexual orientation’ and ‘gender-identity’] in the minds of many legislators,” Palmquist said. “I think that is what’s making it closer this time.”

Equality NC is encouraging supporters to go to their website and send an action alert email to their legislators. “We strongly encourage people to follow that up with a phone call, to let them know they support the bill,” Palmquist said.

Supporters can participate in the action alert here:

In the committee meeting on Tuesday, the leading opponent of the bill in the House, Minority Leader Skip Stam (R-Wake) said same-sex parents are “more dangerous than second-hand smoke.” Stam also “argued that explicitly protecting gay kids from bullying would lead to pedophilia and gay marriage,” WUNC public radio reported.

A second bill of interest to Equality NC and other equality and child welfare advocates is the Healthy Youth Act. It would create better and more accurate comprehensive sex health courses for students. The bill has already passed the House and awaits a vote in the Senate this week. As of Wednesday afternoon, it had been scheduled for a floor vote on Thursday, June 18.

Sean Kosofsky, executive director of NARAL Pro-Choice North Carolina, a member of a coalition working to pass the Healthy Youth Act, said the Senate version does not go far enough to protect and educate students.

“Most of our coalition believes that the Senate version, although superior to current law, is inferior to the House version,” he told Q-Notes. “It is a complicated bill in the Senate; it does other good things that the House version doesn’t do, buyt mostly we are not happy with with the Senate version.”

Echoing Kosofsky, Palmquist said the Senate version would still subject students to inaccurate and outdated information currently being taught in the state’s abstinence-until-marriage courses.

Kosofsky said his coalition is working hard to get the bill changed in the Senate, before it is passed. He said ironing out differences through a House and Senate conference committee would be “the last resort.”

Gov. Beverly Perdue has yet to take a public stance on either the School Violence Prevention Act or Healthy Youth Act this year. Palmquist said he fully expects the governor to “keep her commitment and sign the bills when they get to her desk.”

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Antigay Bias Killings Highest Since 1999 Julie Bolcer

The number of people murdered in anti-LGBT bias incidents increased by 28% in 2008 compared to the previous year, according to a report released on Tuesday by the National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs. The 29 murders represent the highest number documented since 1999 and, when compared to statistics for other anti-LGBT crimes, suggest an increase in the severity of violence.

The number of victims overall who reported anti-LGBT violence in 2008 increased by 2% compared to 2007, with the largest increase — 64% — occurring in Milwaukee. Reported incidents there rose to 18 in 2008 from 11 in 2007.

Nationwide, reports of physical abuse by police increased to 25 incidents last year from 10 in 2007.

Sharon Stapel, executive director of the New York City Anti-Violence Project, which coordinates the coalition of programs in 25 states, said that some of the violence could be attributed to backlash against issues that arose during the heated presidential campaign. “The more visibility there is the more likely we’re going to see backlash, and that’s exactly what we see here,” she said.

Programs in Milwaukee; Minnesota; Chicago; Los Angeles; Colorado; Columbus, Ohio; Houston; Pennsylvania; New York City; Kansas City, Mo.; Michigan; and San Francisco submitted data for the new report.

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