Splitting Hairs: Is the LGBT Community Alienating Its Own?

From Huffington Post:  http://www.huffingtonpost.com/catherine-oliver/splitting-hairs-is-the-lgbt-community-alienating-its-own_b_1412191.html


04/10/2012

Labels play a large role in society. Some choose not to identify with a label, while others find a sense of security in a label and use it to define who they are to others. Off the top of your head, how many labels can you think of for the LGBTQ community? Do certain groups not tolerate one another well? In history, the lesbian community and the gay male community have often been at odds. Some facets of the transgender community are hostile toward one another based on personal decisions regarding medical transition or one’s choice not to do so.

“Gay.” “Lesbian.” “Bisexual.” “Transgender.” “Pansexual.” “Genderqueer.” “Neutrois.” “Non-Identified.” “Queer.” “Femme.” “Butch.” The list goes on.

Have you seen examples of these groups alienating one another based on labels? I recently encountered a stream of vitriol aimed at me for being “genderqueer” — and for my choice not to medically transition. It was implied that I was “less of a man” and therefore somehow inferior to those who chose to take hormone replacement therapy. I asserted my views and tried for common ground. However, it fell upon deaf ears. I was firmly in the “we’re all men together, regardless of how we’re labeled” camp. Apparently, to this individual, that was the wrong place to be. I’ve also run into people labeling me or other lesbians based on our societal level of attractiveness. Lesbians, ever heard the “you’re too pretty to be gay!” argument? It exists.

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