Simone de Beauvoir, “One is not born but rather becomes a woman.”
I have always marveled at the stupidity of the phrase, Woman born woman in all its myriad of spellings. Like the phrase, “But.. You were born a man.”
No one is born either a man or a woman. We are all born babies and we grow into boys and girls and from there to women and men.
A far more accurate phrase is women born female, a phrase that takes into account the privilege of being “normborn”.
I describe myself with the phrase, “woman born transsexual”. I was not “normborn”. I was born different in a society where the abuse from cradle to grave of people born transsexual or transgender is the norm.
As an obvious transkid I was pretty much denied my right to go to school with out daily walking a gauntlet of physical and emotional abuse.
My path to womanhood was not nurtured or socialized by reward and encouragement. Indeed parents and society tried to kill it to force me to grow into something that was so unnatural for me that it would have required me to live a complete fiction.
Now I can understand a feminist pharmacy providing that which is needed for the exercise of reproductive rights.
You see I am totally outraged at the fact that some faith based bigots have seen fit to deny women access to things like birth control, emergency contraception and RU 486.
I wonder if the women who would deny WBTs and TG women access to a safe place for them to also fill their prescriptions are aware that the Christo-fascists have taken it upon themselves to also deny us the filling of our legitimate prescriptions for hormones that we need to keep our bodies functioning.
The personal is the political. Even if some people with born with transsexualism or transgenderism can hide it and stay in the closet at great emotional cost and in doing so amass a lot of male privilege there is very little in this world to compare with coming out trans for hitting the down button on the mobility elevator.
In parts of The Second Sex de Beauvoir talks about the misogyny directed towards feminine males and the US version was published some 4 years before Christine got her SRS.
In some 40 years of being a feminist and a WBT I’ve met some WBTs who embraced stereotypes but I’ve also met WBTS and WBTG folks who have a far better understanding of the oppression women face at the lower end of the social spectrum than many of those WBF with normborn privilege who have had the educations we were denied.
And the funny thing is we know women are not born women. They grow up to be women in the same fucked up misogynistic, woman hating world we grew up in.
With one exception WBF are not treated as though they are mentally ill the way WBTs are.
On many level the rationalization behind the phrase woman born woman resembles the reasons given by the Christo-Fascists as to why we should not allow same sex couples to marry. It is both bigoted ansd illogical. Because it is faith based bigotry those discriminated against have all their arguments against the abuse being meted out by the dominant oppressor treated as the blitherings of perverts.